Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM My hubby was SO skinny when we first started dating. He has gained some weight but is still super fit and trim. However, I like a man who is broad across the shoulders, and this can really only be achieved by weightlifting. A really muscular guy I like OK, but a muscular guy with some fat, so I can't see all the weird muscle lines is what I like most. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM If a man is obviously overweight as opposed to being bigger because of muscle, then they are a definite turn off.Having said that, I really like guys to have a bit of meat of them (not fat) but I don't like really skinny either. They could be the greatest friend ever, but I wouldn't date him.
He has zero muscle tone, and his fitness capability is limited to about a 25 minute stroll before he is tired.My hubby is very overweight, which didn't bother me at first.I tend to be more about the personality than the physical.What is it about fat girls that puts guys off dating them? Also i always see people write in threads how they would make a runner if they met a girl via online dating and she turned out to be fat. If so I don't understand why, surely it just means they have extra curves? There's a pretty popular thread going on about whether men are attracted to fat women.